Hello!
So our big day is in January, a good 8 months from now. But I started thinking about the rehearsal dinner. We’re very grateful that my parents are covering the cost for everything else, and have said the rehearsal dinner is something the grooms parents take care of. We’ve been engaged for 4 months now, and the topics never come up. I’ve excused it due to the current state of the world/it still being a while off. But we’ve talked about the wedding a lot and its becoming more of a concern for me.
It should be noted that the mother and I have never gotten along. The last 6 years I’ve gone out of my way for her but she’s never fully liked me. And we ran into an issue when we announce our wedding would be kid free and her only grandkid and my fiancé’s nephew couldn’t be a part of the big day. She straight up asked if we could just reconsider eloping instead.
So....How do We go about Asking if they’re paying for the rehearsal dinner?