How to be my own happy

I am a twin so l really struggled with the whole alone time thing. I hated it. And my honey needs his own "me time"which took me 15 years to hear and 18 years to accept. Lol. Now I'm glad to give him his space. Its important to learn how to have balance. He can't be your everything. Its too much to ask for someone to hold your happiness in the palm of their hand. Get busy. Go see friends and family. Make a nice dinner..exercise or read a book. You can do it! Best wishes girl

Awwww thats so sad..Please be kind to urself and think of how beautiful and stong and smart you are. There is no reason to feel sad when you are alone unless you have suffered a trauma while being alone. I think you are co dependent on him and does not feel normal when you are not with him. Try to change that a bit. When you are alone, go out with your girl friends, or go shopping to your favorite store. Be pro active in that change. Good luck.

What did you do before him? You were a whole, complete, interesting person before you met him and you still are now. What do you enjoy doing? Take on a new hobby. Find a class in your area and learn a new skill. My Cricut is my best friend and it brings in a little extra income.

I relate to this SO MUCH! FH and I do essentially everything together. If he has plans on the weekend (I work in an office all week) I get sad he won't be with me, if he doesn't come to bed at the same time as me I get sad.

Like everyone else said: you've got to find something apart from your relationship that makes you feel good and happy and motivated. I 200% would rather be spending time with him than anything else, and I don't think that will ever change, but they say "absence makes the heart grow fonder"...even if it's just from across the house lol. I've taken up weight-lifting, he loves his video games, so on the nights he's going to be up late playing with friends I do a long workout to pass the time.

It's totally normal to feel that happy when you're together, just make sure you know who you are as your own individual too

Try out a new hobby or craft. Read a book or magazine. I know it can be tough at times. I personally enjoy doing crafts to keep me busy. Especially wreath making.

It seems like you have separation anxiety and/or codependency issues.

Perhaps you should get counseling to deal with these issues.

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