For those who believe in energy, law of attraction, or feng shui - what are some things that will bring good energy to your wedding day? I watched some shows on feng shui and home renovations. For example - one woman still had pictures of her ex around her bedroom, even though she moved on. Once she cleared that space, she was able to attract potential dating mates in her life. Just like with clutter, if you live with clutter, it represents the state of your mind and how stressed you are. If you are someone who doesn't live with clutter, you don't have much baggage.
I read somewhere that if you were to borrow something from someone, make sure it's someone from a good, healthy marriage with a good family (keep in mind, i said, "healthy", and not "perfect"). I say this because I don't want to repeat the same cycles that BOTH of our parents had in their marriage. Both our parents' marriage were not ideal models to be inspired by at all. They're all emotionally immature. A big part of it is culture - asians don't have feelings and when they do, they repress it, which makes it worse. None of them compromise, they do "silent treatments" real well, they keep score and wait until they hit it where it hurts for the other partner. I know it takes more than feng shui to achieve this - for example: therapy, learning from each other and improving (which I'm happy to say, we have). We are not like our parents at all and I'm thankful but I don't want to promote a certain energy (unknowingly) at my wedding and have it affect it.
We were thinking of doing the 'ol wedding picture table - parents, grandparents but we don't want our current portrait to be on the same table. Are there things we need to be aware of?
