I’ve been with my fiancé since 16, we’re now 21. We got engaged almost a year ago and plan on having our wedding next year. My family is fully acceptable of our decision, but my fiancé’s family is not. We have our own home and have been living with each other for about 3 years. We’re also extremely independent and have been for a very long time. My finaces uncle
said “we’re too young, but if we want to ruin our life so be it” just because of our choice to get married. Majority of his family is against it due to our age. I feel that my family is more acceptable of it because marriages on my side have been pretty successful. My parents got married in their 20s and still are married, also my aunt and uncle and many other family members. Not one single person in my fiancé’s family has ever stayed married. They’ve at least all been divorced once, which is completely taboo in my family. They’ve always created irrational assumptions that aren’t true for “why” we’re getting married.. I just don’t understand how to deal with this. It’s a choice we are happy with making, not because of the length of time we’ve been together, even though it does add value to our relationship but it’s more than just that. We’ve been through a lot together. We watched each other grow individually, overcame challenges, understand one another on a whole different level, our connection is beyond words, not only are we a couple, but we hold a strong bond and friendship. We absolutely love one another. I feel like we have to defend our marriage decision..