My fiance and i are invited to my friends wedding. We have already rsvp yes. My friend and i are not very close, we see eachother when we meet in a group of other girls, but never just the two of us. I dont have many friends, and i think its really nice of her and her fiance to include us eventhoug we dont hang out that often.
The wedding is next saturday.
The problem:
One week ago my mother did a suicide attempt by taking an overdose. She is recovering, but Im devestated about the whole situation. I have absolutely no energy, and my feelings are all over the place.
The upcoming wedding is stressing me. I dont know if i should tell my friend that we wont make it, or if i should try to go. Right now i dont want to attend, just because im so tired and sad.
I mean, if i know now we will not attend, i should problably let her know. Maybe i feel different about all of this in a couple of days.
Guess i just need some advice, and a place to vent.
Only close family knows about my mothers attempt.
All of the other girls are going to the wedding, and Im scared it will look silly and rude if i cancel just to stay home and rest during the weekend.
I go to work everyday, but right now Im not comfortable around a lot of people.
What would you do?
If i was to cancel, how should i word it?
