Hi!
My wedding is 2/13. As of now, my venue has a cap of 100 guests which means we have to cut out 105 people. It’s not going to be pretty.
We still have 114 days but there is a high probability that capacity isn’t going to change so we are planning for it.
So I have a couple things I need advice on. We created an “A” list which is our 100 people that MUST get an invite (Immediate family and best friends). Our “B” list is everyone we removed. I am thinking of sending invitations to our A list early December (rsvp is due by 1/16).
So, as I get “no’s” back do I then send out an invitation from the “B” list?
Do I wait until I hear back from my A list before telling the B list the bad news?Or do I tell the B list before invites go out and tell them we will contact them if space opens up? What do I do with the people on the B list who already sent us gifts? (My wedding was originally 5/1/20) Is December good to start sending invites? Or should I give myself more time due to the predicament with 105 ppl sitting on the sidelines?
I’m dreading having these conversations and I want to make sure I handle this as sensitively as possible and not offend anyone.
Help 😭
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