How to include 3 sons

The three sons could be your husband’s groomsmen

View Quoted Comment Cece , that sounds wonderful, but then do I have to have ladies stand with me , we weren't plyon being that formal.

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Nope, not at all! But another option could be to have your husband's 2 boys walk down the aisle with him and stand on his side, then your bio son walk you down the aisle and stand on your side.

My fiancé has a grown daughter, and our officiant is taking a (brief) moment to acknowledge her during the ceremony so she still feels like she’s a part of things. If she were younger, my officiant was going to do a “pinky promise vow” similar to the actual vows but with promises suitable for young kids. So you can find a place to incorporate your sons into the ceremony that is appropriate for their ages.