I have been engaged to the father of my twins for four years. When he proposed I got excited and asked my then best friend to be my maid of honor. After I had the twins she disappeared. We would text every now and then and then eventually she just wouldn't respond. I see her once in a blue moon when I run into her at the store and we talk a little bit but then we move on and I don't hear from her or see her until I run into her again. I've asked to hang out and get no response or she's busy. After my girls were born my other friend really stepped up and was really there for me when I was going through postpartum depression. She has been a constant in my life for the past four years. I really want to make her my maid of honor. We decided to only have one person up at the alter with each of us so I couldn't make my old maid of honor a bridesmaid she would just be a guest. How should I approach the old maid of honor and let her know that because we've grown so far apart that I want to replace her.
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