Before becoming engaged back in May, I had my whole wedding planned and I knew exactly what I wanted. Now that I am engaged I have planned my wedding about 5 times in 3 different cities and with different venues, vendors, and dates. I get to the point of signing a contract and then I get anxious and back out. I feel like every choice is not right. I am great at making choices in most other areas of my life, but everything with the wedding is so hard. I felt like I needed to make a choice so I impulsively bought the wrong wedding dress. The hard part is we have a limited budget, and a limited schedule. I am a grad student at the moment and only have certain times off of school. We also moved to Arizona and away from my family in Oregon. Our friends are also spread all over the country. We have debated having a wedding in Oregon (where all family could attend and little friends), Arizona (some friends and some family would attend), and now Mexico (where little family and little friends would attend). Weather is also tricky in each location in regards to the dates lining up with school schedule. Eloping is also on the table, but we really want our people there and to have the party. Both of our families are supportive in that they have no preference and say "whatever makes you happy, but if it's in that location I won't make it". I am glad I don't have an opinion from them, but it's sad no matter what location we pick we will miss a lot of people. Has anyone else dealt with indecision with your wedding or has any advice with how to pick a wedding destination?
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