Hi all,
I am in need of some delicate advice. My FMIL is very kind, and means well. We have recently started a venue hunt for a ~180 person wedding. Up front, she provided a list of over 100 people, we made her slash it down by 2/3, albeit our biggest mistake was not giving her a headcount to start with. She keeps mentioning her desire to include her full list, but we simply cannot afford that size wedding.
My parents have informed us they'll be chipping in for a substantial portion of the wedding, my FIL's have not. I get, and appreciate that she's excited, and wants to feel involved, but after her coming on the first venue tour yesterday, I realized it was incredibly awkward having her see the prices of everything, when they are not paying. We have several more tours set up for this weekend. I feel like my mom should join, as she is footing most of the bill, but how can I politely ask my FH to have his parents not join?