How to politley decline a "bachelorette party"

I canceled my original party because a friend of a friend scheduled her baby shower the same day and time and I didn't want them to overlap cos a lot of the same friends would be involved and I figured that having a baby shower is a bigger deal than a bachelorette party. so a different friend told me she wanted to throw me a party instead... except her idea of said party is get a group of friends together and go to the movies and I said I didn't like that idea because it seems silly to pay so much to sit quietly in a theater and not even be able to socialize. she then suggested having a PJ and movie night, but I work night shift and cant get the weekend off (Wedding is next weekend anyways) seems silly to get into PJs just to have to get dressed in the middle of my day and go to work

how do I tell her thanks but no thanks. she keeps pushing. id just rather not do anything at this point.