****Okay so just a disclaimer before hand****
I live in Wisconsin and a lot of the weddings I have attended or know of will invite some people to only the ceremony and dancing because there is not enough room for them at the dinner. This is mostly for very extended family or casual friends who still want to see you get married and help celebrate/party. I know it is technically "poor etiquette" but it generally doesn't seem to be an issue with the people/culture around here. That being said, I really would prefer this discussion remain HELPFUL and not rude or judgmental. I don't want a million negative comments saying "That's poor etiquette!!!! You're so rude!"
NOW...onto my question. Has anyone done this before and how did you word the invitations? The ceremony and reception are both being held in the same building with a cocktail hour in between the ceremony and dinner. Everybody is welcome to enjoy cocktail hour. Do I send out separate invitations? Does this get passed around by word of mouth? Do I just not send formal invitations to these people in general? Please help!
Again, please no rude or judgmental comments!