I am honoring my fiancé's grandmas and my aunt by having them walk down the aisle. I have an usher for my aunt and his other grandma will possibly walk alone(still trying to work this out), however, my fiancé's other grandma is married and I want her husband to walk her down. Would I list him as an Usher as well or is that weird? Or have it written as "grandma escorted by grandpa" and so on. But again an issue if other grandma walks alone.
Also, I have no idea what to list these women under as I can't say grand parent for my aunt. I was thinking Honored guest, but then it sounds rude if the husband was under usher, which is where I find my dilemma.
Would it be okay to say Honored Matriarchs? (As these are the oldest women in both our families)
Sorry for the long question. I just want to make sure I get the program setup in a way that everyone is included and roles are not diminished, if that makes sense.
Thank you 
