How was your Marriage counselling session or didn't have 1

Is that a religious thing? I’m not sure much about it which is why I ask

Yeah, I'm happy for you Monique! My partner and I also did marriage counseling prior to our wedding to get into a marriage mindset. We had a couple sessions after the wedding because well, it doesn't end at the altar. Good for you for starting in advance of the more stressful countdown months.

We are at our 3rd session out of 8 and my fiance is also shy but shining like a star in the session as well. He loves it because he says it gives him clarity and it reassures him we are doing things the right way. we have our pastor doing ours which was scary at first but she has given us some much-needed tools and ways to talk through things. I'm so happy to hear your husband-to-be and you are enjoying your classes.. wishing yall the best!

View Quoted Comment No I dont think that its is a religious thing but I know that it is important. But think everyone has or have not done it. It is really important for your coming marriage because if there is anything that is bothering you it can help to have someone there to help mediate.This helps everyone I am a religious person and he is slightly too but him wanting to do it for me. I am greatful and more in ah with him so far is doing.But it will be a good start so you both to have a even level footing going to your marriage. Congratulations to you both and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us

View Quoted Comment Thank you Michelle and yes that is so true we have 6 more months left so I thought it would be good to start idea to do it now. And I'm glad as well so if there are anything that he needs or want to say he can. But we know men sometimes are a closed book but get love the fact that he is really taking this serious

View Quoted Comment Interesting! Yeah I never thought about it. We’ve talked about relationship counseling anyway. Good to have a constant middle ground to make sure a relationship stays healthy. Neither of us are religious which is why I thought maybe it was. I’m happy it worked out for you and you enjoyed it! And congratulations to you!

View Quoted Comment Thank you Keyra at first I was scared because I thought that he wasnt going to participate in the marriage counseling at all but he showed up and out and I am so thankful for him to do that and it gave both of us clarity as well. I've learned that I have to respect him more even when we are out in public. I will try to handle myself responses to him in a better way. Yeah he was a rock star. Thank you for sharing your comments with us I really need that uplift more too thank you

View Quoted Comment Hi Taylor you both should really do it,it good that you both thought about it. But it's good to have a better understanding about each other strong and weak points are and what you work on. There no grapes going into your marriage because some people think that it's just a party but once that party is over this the person that you are going home day and day out. If you guys are leaving separately but you both come under the same roof. Its different how the person sleeps how they clean up etc.. Because there will be things that you will find out about one another that you may or may not know about. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us and happy marriage counseling session for you both 👍🏽

View Quoted Comment We do actually live together already! I know that’s not everyone’s preference. But I remember the growing pains of learning to live with your partner and getting used to it lol. Also, thank you! I wish you and your partner a happy life together ☺️

View Quoted Comment Your are welcome I know that some couples now live together and are or have gotten married already. We used to also lived together were apart for sometime to work in us individually and the relationship. And now we are getting married so we will not going officially live together again until after we say I do. I wish you are your FH the best and many good blessing ❤

View Quoted Comment I love finding things out about my hubby. I found out i had to be more submissive and allow him to lead

View Quoted Comment Oh wow yes I was told that to and I get it but when you are independent of your own life. Then we it's to combined the 2 we thinking that oh he is going to take me I won't have my identity once we get married. So far from that only is changing is that your last name and no longer a ms miss we will be MRS. LOLLOL And you are wives now

View Quoted Comment And Keyra I am so happy that we are doing too lean more things about our spouses that we can fix whatever cons we may have . To make a better pro. After we had our daughter that is now 25yrs so this a big deal for her too.🤣He has started telling me things that I didn't know. About he said always knew that it have been me. But we were separated for sometime but we had started seeing other ppl but it didn't work out . Because we just had that it thing that and just fit. We thought about each trying to stay loyal to the people we were with. Its was like a Magnet and that pulling force of love and here we are

View Quoted Comment So true I’ve been independent since 18 so I’m learning to tone it down. But your so right and your love story is so cute.. I’m happy y’all worked it out. My mom and step dad went through the same thing and they were married 11th before he passed..

View Quoted Comment Aww ty for that compliment yes we have been thru the good and the bad.So now we know that blessing are coming. And that was great as and I'm sorry for your loss. Yes we came a long way

I find the counseling to be valuable. My fiance and I did not do marriage counseling but I like the idea of it especially if you want to talk things out in-depth and having a third party person come in and help is very nice.

View Quoted Comment Hi Amanda I am glad that she said we should do marriage counseling at first I thought why do we need it. But I hlad that we are doing it guess to have a better understanding of one another and even level. Of any second guess or something that we needed to work there isn't much.There is what every couples has is has worked on this subject or are working on is communication and working together as one.