When I search through the forums for suggestions on cutting guest lists, the obvious suggestions are to cut: kids, coworkers, distant family.
Heres my issue: FH’s family knows no “distance.” His great aunts & uncles, third cousins, etc. all come to every family event. He sees them and talks to them at every holiday every year. So his family thinks it’s absolutely necessary to invite every single one of them. I, wanting to cut costs and stay under 200, have an issue with that. There are some of these people who are important to them but have talked to me like once.
His parents are also inviting like 5 of their friends who FH doesn’t even talk to. This is really frustrating and annoying to me, but they have offered to pay approx. 1/4 of our wedding costs, so it doesn’t feel fair to say no.
Do you see my dilemma? It’s so upsetting when my family is giving me flack for having such a huge wedding, not realizing that it’s totally not my doing and I’m struggling with how to handle it!
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