Husband is best man.. where does that leave me?

I was a BM in my friend's wedding and FH was somewhat on his own but after dinner, we were dancing and having fun together. At first I was worried about him being alone cause he didn't know the other guests either but he was fine. It's really not that long so I wouldn't worry about it too much.

At my brother's wedding, there were plenty of girlfriends and wives of the groomsmen who weren't bridesmaids. They joined the bridal party and families for the rehearsal dinner, they tagged along at the salon and were just generally around. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Odds are you'll meet someone early on and the two of you (or more) will stick together. I wasn't a bridesmaid at that wedding either, so I ended spending a lot of time with them and we had a really nice time.

I'm kind of in that same situation. Fortunately, I know a few other people going to the wedding, so I won't be completely alone. Get to know someone else. There will probably be at least one other person in your situation. Good luck!

Is there a bar?

Like everyone else has said, I think you have to put this into perspective. It's only one day and you will still be at the wedding with your FH. Also, if I can be honest (and I don't mean this to sound rude so I really hope it comes across well), as a best man, he will have a lot of responsibility prior to and immediately following the ceremony so try not to press the issue with him too much the day of. Just relax, socialize with the people at your table, etc. If you don't want to feel left out, email the bride and just mention that if she needs any assistance the day of, you would be more than happy to help her. Once the dancing starts you will forget all your worries anyway. Just try to have fun!

Look on it as your way to helping out the bride and groom. It may not be much fun for you, but it is your way of helping out a couple on their wedding day. You can survive a few hours!

Last Super Bowl Sunday My husband and i were at his best friend/Brother And his fiancee home And the gm to be told me they were being Married Aug 1/2015 And

My husband is to be his best Man,Contonued to tell me who is to be whom in the wedding on the bride to be side,like CoWorkers,Aunt,Neice ect,Im Mentioned No Where,I Did Say Congratulations! A few Months Pass by Our two teens ask about the wedding i told them we were Not invited,I mentioned this to my husband And he was a lil offended and said we were invited but he just forgot to tell me,And the Groom did it by word of Mouth,During all of this my husband had been fitted for his tux and shoes which He Now owns out Right he $Bought his, Anout a week ago i informed my husband that i will not be going,I dont have anything to wear,And not enough time to get me anything,up to date,Last evening my husband informed me the bride to be will be or is suppose to call me to invite me to the local elephant bar for food and drinks with her and the women/ftiends in the wedding party,Im feeling some kind of way,I have not drank alcohol in 14 years and Really am just Not comfortable And do not want to go for various obvious reasons Afore mentioned,Question Am i being selfish/childish? My feelings Are to me Valid,What is your take on this if it were you?Thank you in Advance for your input

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Am I obligated to make my husbands best mans wife a bridesmaid?

She sent me a message asking about my colors and if I had a specific dress in mind for the wedding party of just the colors. I have only spoken to this person 1 time in person in the last 3 years. And it seems to ma that by her asking that question she is assuming that since her husband is going to be my fiances best man that she would automatically be a bridesmaid too.

What do i do. And how do i even pose the question to her if that is her assumption with seeming like a .......

I’m in the same situation, my bf is the best man, i work with the groom so i know him but i don’t really know much of anyone. i don’t want to sit in the wrong spot or something i get so awkward at weddings

My boyfriend at the time was a groomsman and I attended the rehearsal dinner and sat with him. The only time I wasn’t with him was the morning of the wedding when he left early to get ready and take photographs before the ceremony and then again during the ceremony. I decided to go to the gym in the morning and then get a massage!!! I took a long relaxing shower and got ready leisurely. I took the hotel bus shuttle by myself and sat by myself at the ceremony. Then at cocktail hour I was with him and at dinner I was seated with him and we danced together the whole night. I hope they are considerate of him having a partner!!!

Is this woman SERIOUSLY this immature and narcissistic! And this is what men marry nowadays, smh. Disgusting.

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GET OVER YOURSELVES!!! I seriously cannot believe the narcissism of these replies. It isn't about you.. HE is the best man. Get a life, all of you. Seriously. Massage, my #@%.