My friends bachelorette is in 5 months, and her MOH is asking for vacation rental payment ($800) now. I’m currently unemployed and planning my own very budget conscious wedding, and my friend knows both of these things and is also trying to be budget conscious (so she claims).
I told my friend who’s getting married that I can’t afford the Bach weekend, but I could be there for a day and to support. She said that would be really rude and I’d be forcing the other girls to spend more money because I wouldn’t be a part of the vacation rental anymore. She wants me to get on a payment plan where she loans me the money to attend and I pay her back every month, but I’m on a fixed income with the unemployment that is just barely covering my necessary life expenses right now and even the payment plan would be aggressive at the moment.
I’m afraid if I back out of the Bach she’ll not want me to be a bridesmaid and that would ruin our friendship. Should I just put it on my credit card and sweat about it later? Food and drink are not included in the 800 being asked of me today.
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