I am at a loss and I don't know who to talk to. Planning this wedding has been a nightmare. For context, my fiance is from Australia, so we decided to get married in Hawaii to make it fair for each side of the family and no one having to travel too far.
Well, all I've gotten to hear since the beginning of this are complaints. I've had one bridesmaid had to quit because of expense, had to 'fire' one because she was being a nightmare, my sister used me asking her to be emcee as an opportunity to bring up every past grievance she has in our relationship, so I retracted the request, now my bridesmaid who is planning the bachelorette is having money trouble and has started complaining about every decision I make bachelorette-wise. We've had so many setbacks with flight cancellations, problems with our rental unit. I just feel like every part of this planning process has made me feel even more alone. My FH is wonderful and is the only beacon of light in the whole experience. Genuinely, I just don't know how much more stress and disappointment I can stomach. I'm incredibly jealous of brides whose families and friends just love them so much and rally around them. I've never been miss popular, so I get it why I'm having trouble rallying people now, but man, it's hard not feel totally dragged down by all the negativity.
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