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MissB
VIP May 2013

I cried a bucket of tears today

MissB, on May 7, 2013 at 8:12 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 19

I don't have many friends, this is not my first wedding and my MOH lives halfway across the country. Today my boss came to me and told me that tomorrow they are throwing me a shower. I have only 4 co-workers and they will all be there as well as some of my favorite clients. I am so honored and so humbled, I cried a bucket of tears today and I know I will again at the shower.

I am also coming to grips with the very real possibility that my mother will not be coming to my wedding. She has COPD and is having a bad week and most likely will not be up to traveling.

I am 4 days out and I am so blown away by the love around me, ladies please don't lose sight of what is most important about these events and while gifts are great, its really about the love and support.

Thanks for letting me be a bit weepy.

19 Comments

Latest activity by MissB, on May 7, 2013 at 9:19 PM
  • Charlotte
    VIP July 2013
    Charlotte ·
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    Owww, sorry about you mom, COPD sucks especially the period they are exacerbating. At least you know that you are loved, happy tears here too...

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  • Amanda
    Master August 2013
    Amanda ·
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    Aww, that's so awesome of your coworkers. Sometimes it takes a gesture like that to realize maybe your coworkers are some of your closest friends and you didn't even know it.

    I know I'm going to be weepy at my shower too. It's so awesome to have support like that - its not even about the gifts.

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    That's great. I hope a miracle happens and your mom can make it ((hugs))

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  • Out the Window
    Master May 2014
    Out the Window ·
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    Awww MissB! The actions of the people around you is a testament to your character. You deserve to be happy and I'm sending all my good vibes to have your mom feel better!!! <<>>

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  • Carole B
    Super September 2013
    Carole B ·
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    I'm sorry about your mother's illness. Enjoy your shower and bask in the attention from your work friends.

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  • Melodie
    VIP August 2022
    Melodie ·
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    Hello date twin! I am also sorry to hear about your mom's COPD. Isn't it amazing though the wonderful joy and people around you the closer you get. I had alot of weepy moments lately realizing it. I hope your day turns out amazing! I can't wait to see those pictures!

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  • Barbara
    Master September 2014
    Barbara ·
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    I'm glad to see they are happy tears. Hope you have a wonderful time tomorrow!

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  • KellyT
    Master August 2014
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    I was so glad to read these were happy tears, too. Enjoy your shower and I hope your mom does end up being able to make it to your wedding.

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  • J
    Master January 2014
    Jules ·
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    I'm sorry about your mom, but glad to hear about happy tears! Xo

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  • Brianne Wick
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    Great post MissB. Have a wonderful time at your shower and enjoy your big day! Sending positive thoughts to you and your mom!

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  • Gabriele
    Super June 2013
    Gabriele ·
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    Awww MissB ... you deserve all of the love around you!

    So sorry about your mom, I hope she makes a miraculous improvement.

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  • T
    Expert August 2013
    ToBMrs.V ·
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    Awesome coworkers!!! Just Awesome!

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  • Private User
    VIP July 2013
    Private User ·
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    Yay, so happy for you! Sorry about your mom. I hope she pulls through and makes it.

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  • Joanna G
    VIP October 2013
    Joanna G ·
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    That's great about your shower! I know it can be difficult to not have a lot of friends but obviously have ppl in your life that love you. I hope your mom gets to come. You are getting married on a very special day... my son's 8th birthday Smiley smile

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  • Chiffon
    Expert July 2013
    Chiffon ·
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    Im sure you deserve it!! Have lots of fun and take pics!!

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  • Jackie
    Master October 2014
    Jackie ·
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    Awww MissB! You have some awesome people around you! **hugs**

    I'm keeping you in my thoughts and hope mom recovers in time.

    You will have an amazing wedding and I can't wait to see your "back and married" post!

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  • ... just add coffee
    VIP October 2013
    ... just add coffee ·
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    This is wonderful to read. It's so nice to be surrounded by people who love and support you.

    I'm sorry to hear about your mom - but hopefully things turn around and she gets to come to your wedding! Smiley smile

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  • MissB
    VIP May 2013
    MissB ·
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    Thanks everyone, with my mom it is what it is she loves me and will be there if she can I know that.

    My coworkers have their great moments this is true lol.

    And yes they are happy tears!!!

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