i don’t like my fiancé best man

No couple is ever going to like every relative and friend of their spouse. You just need to be polite, kind, and make the best of it, and over time you may even come like the person.

Voice your concerns and let him make his own decisions. Our first step in planning was to promise we wouldn't invite anyone either of us disliked for this reason!

My sister had this issue, but the guy was a trouble maker. Always drank too much and caused scenes at a few other mutual friends weddings. My sister put her foot down and said not only can he not be the BM but he's not allowed in the wedding party at all.

If he has issues like above I would say absolutely tell him no way but if you just don't like him for no particular reason I'd just leave it alone.

Before anyone comes after my sister for her choice just know this guy punched a brides dad at a friends wedding so he's literally a nut job.

I’ve never met the best man so it is what it is .

I don’t think it’s a good idea to do what you’re suggesting if he’s asked him to be his best man or wants to ask him and his told you that that’s what he wants to do. Why should what you want be more important than what he wants? is it more your wedding then his? Can he say no your sister can’t come and your best friend can’t be your bridesmaid?

I think you’re just upset but if you stand back from the situation you’re kind of not being considerate of him

Yes it’s wrong to make him choose someone else. Just because you don’t like him doesn’t mean he can’t like him. It would be controlling to ask him to choose someone else. I don’t like all of my FH’s groomsmen but I love my FH and would never ask him to give up a friend or choose someone else just because they aren’t my cup of tea.

Yes, I think so. I assume your fiance is picking his best friend. If his best friend is someone that is truly mean to you and causes issues in your relationship, that seems like a bigger problem to deal with.