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Just Said Yes August 2022

i don't think my family likes my husband ...

Lewenski, on May 31, 2023 at 9:48 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 5
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I'm starting to believe my family doesn't like my husband. At first they seemed to love him but now years later they have distanced themselves from me a lot. I can't say the reason why because they haven't outwardly said they don't like him . It's just over the years I find myself not talking to family I used to talk to frequently (weekly) before my marriage and at the beginning of my relationship. They used to come to all of our events but I don't think they will attend anymore since the wedding. They no longer accept my calls and act weird when we come around. I have never said anything bad about my relationship to them so it can't be because of anything they have heard. We have never argued in front of them or anything. It hurts a little because I was so close to them . Some of us even have matching tattoos to now pretty much not speaking at all. When I ask what's going on they are really short with me. It's causing me so much stress

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Latest activity by Veronica, on June 1, 2023 at 12:34 PM
  • Sarah
    Master September 2019
    Sarah ·
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    Just because you've never specifically told them anything bad about your relationship doesn't mean they haven't picked up on anything. Given everything you've shared on this forum, I would guess that at least some of them have noticed some red flags about your relationship.


    Unfortunately if they won't communicate with you about their concerns/what's wrong, I'd say you're going to have to just let this go.
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  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
    Cece ·
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    I have to agree with the previous poster. There have been tons of issues and red flags in your relationship (based off all your previous posts). I’m sure your family is picking up on that, and your unhappiness in the relationship.
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  • LM
    Super December 2022
    LM ·
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    You're now a social unit. So if they don't like your husband, they will keep conversations short. It would otherwise be rude of them to invite you out, and not your spouse. I don't have recommendations on fixing this as you've chosen your life which is to stand by your man.

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  • Han & Michael
    Savvy June 2023
    Han & Michael ·
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    Definitely agree with previous posters. Based on previous discussions from you: they probably don’t, you are right. But you have vowed to him that he is your priority, above your other family.
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    It's no wonder your family doesn't like your husband. Based on your previous posts it doesn't sound like you even like your husband most of the time.
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