Hi all,
There is some serious family drama going on in my family - and it is effecting the fact that one of my BMs (SIL) has been forbidden (I know crazy right) to talk to any member of my family as my brother is seriously losing his mind and accusing us all of plotting against him and it's too much drama to go into. We have tried getting him mental help - it is not looking good.
So SIL is not allowed to talk to me - I believe he has blocked me on their phones (as well as the rest of the family that is sending him "secret messages" . I want to start looking at BM dresses - but that means letting others (not the immediate family) know what is happening and that SIL will not be able to be involved.
I guess it isn't really a question whether she should participate because my brother is taking that out of my hands - I guess what I am wondering is when is the appropriate time to start chatting dresses with the ladies. I do not want to leave SIL out - but I do not see this situation changing in the next few weeks/ months.
