Hi everyone!
I don't know where else to go so I figured I would come to the WW ladies for advice.
I got engaged in October 2021 and my wedding is coming up this September 2022. Everyone was happy for me and wished me the best. I asked my best friend of let's say 4-5 years to be my MOH and she accepted. However, I feel like I'm not getting as much help as I had hoped. I send her pictures of dresses, bouquets, veils, etc. and she basically gives thumbs up or thumbs down and that's it. IDK, I really don't want to come across wrong, I guess I had just hoped that as a maid of honor she would have been more hands on and OFFERING help. She's not planning my bachelorette or my bridal shower and hasn't shown any interest in wanting to do either. She has told me to tell her what to do and give her instruction and I try but then STILL nothing is done to the point that I just have to do it myself anyways (which I guess is fine, it's just so stressful). Like no effort or interest is expressed from her to where I feel like my wedding is just an inconvenience to her and that sucks :/...... I'm starting to feel hopeless and overwhelmed; I've become so stressed from doing this entire thing alone that it's starting to affect my mental health and well-being. It's just too much to stress to go through alone, I get, no one will care about my wedding as much as I do but that's not what I am wanting. I just want some help.... :/ that's all. I just don't know what to do... I don't know how much more stress I can take