So I will attempt to make a long story somewhat short. But I asked a friend to be a bridesmaid, she accepted. There have been a few red flags along the way recently. Her new(er) partner is not someone I would want at my wedding (called me a communist for getting/supporting the COVID vaccine - I have not pushed beliefs on anyone, but he is rather an aggressive person), I have not spent any time with her and lastly and most pressing is that she is in dire financial distress. I actually reached out and asked if she needed to back out of the bridal party with all the stress going on and that I didn't want to cause any more stress for her. She said no, no no and stated "unless you don't want me..". I know it is not appropriate for her to be in the bridal party financially. But she has again talked to me about her extreme financial issue and that is only worsening. I don't know what to say or how to say it. When I originally discussed with her I said I still wanted to see her on the special day and that she is important to me. Those things are all true, I am a very positive person but also entirely non confrontational. I don't want to upset her but I feel as though I need to actually tell her that she can't be part of the bridal party at this point. All of it is just very stressful.
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