I need help. So I dont have a good relationship with my extended family specifically my Aunt. She has done and said things in the past and has been the root of pain and drama to my family. I dont want drama on my wedding day. I want it to be about my fiance and I. I only want people around who we love and make us feel loved. And I dont know the last time I felt she even cared about me. So I decided to exclude her and I feel strongly about that. We sent out save the dates and she did not get one. Now she's asking my when it is and is expecting an invite? Do I tell her she isn't invited ? My fiance thinks I should just ignore her and it'll go away. But I want to handle it in the right way I just dont know what that is. Am I an asshole ?
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