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Joann
Savvy March 2022

i need advice

Joann, on June 30, 2021 at 12:16 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8
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My fiance and I are a long-distance relationship we are 1 year and almost 4 months together. we want to get married soon. I know would be my second wedding and it's his first time getting married. I just know that in God's timing would be better to wait until he's here in person to purchase or do final decisions together but I want to buy my dress already I choose a wedding gown and I choose his tuxedo to wear at a decent price on Amazon I was thinking of purchasinging. I just can't decide to wait or do before he comes since I'm scared would be a delay in the mail or something like alternations. Is better to be last-minute or prepared before his arrival?

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Latest activity by Joann, on June 30, 2021 at 9:38 PM
  • Courtney
    Expert September 2022
    Courtney ·
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    Wait. Your FH should get to pick his outfit, and I really don't think I'd trust amazon for something like that.

    Your FH should be involved in all decisions, especially ones that will personally affect him.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    Hi Joann! I think it's totally fine to pick out your wedding dress on your own (unless you and your fiancé want him to be part of that process), but I'd wait and let him choose his own wedding attire!

    Can you send him a link to the amazon option so he can scope it out?

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  • Joann
    Savvy March 2022
    Joann ·
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    Yes he’s okay I got his approval on wedding attire. He told me is special I choose for him since he trust me on fashion statements. I make sure read the reviews on Amazon before purchasing but I decide to wait until his arrival. Just think about putting on wishlist for meantime.
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  • Joann
    Savvy March 2022
    Joann ·
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    So true thank you I gave him options he told me want to get married in white tuxedo.
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  • Joann
    Savvy March 2022
    Joann ·
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    Thank you for your sweet feedback
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  • Viviana
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    I agree! I don't think Amazon would be the best place for these purchases and your FH should definitely be a part of these purchases - especially his own tux.

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  • L
    Devoted October 2022
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    I think before you guys get married, y’all should consider staying together in person for a bit before taking any further decisions. Things can be different than in long-distance relationship. You should wait to get dress and a tux - it’s expensive and can always go wrong. Take baby steps before anything. Saying that as an experience I had.
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  • Joann
    Savvy March 2022
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    Thank you for advice I will take baby steps and go with flow
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