A close friend of mine is getting married. I offered to throw her a bachelorette. Everyone will be responsible for their own dinner/drinks.
My question is (and please don’t be too hard on me), is it appropriate to ask for money to go toward the cake/goodie bags/decor? Most of the people going are mutual friends, but some are her personal friends who I don’t know. Is this a thing or should I just pay for the whole thing? It turned into something bigger than I expected. She invited a ton of people.