My at one time MOH more like (Maid of horror) and Bridesman were recently kicked out of my wedding. I’ve had enough and they’ve had control over this whole wedding and everything thing I wanted to do they talked me out of they ruined my bridal shower and future up coming events because they are focused on them and what they want.
Im totally the type b kinda person laid back and chill. Last week my at the time MOH wanted to bring her dad to my bridal shower and I said no. It caused a huge argument that I’m still baffled by. Then right after my shower and the day after both these too individuals texted me talking nothing but bad things and about my Mother in-law. My mother in law fell coming into my shower (please note I wasn’t there yet) she had rocks embedded in her knee and blood running down her leg. She ran into the bathroom to clean her self up. She didn’t have a chance to say hi or nothing. They said she was rude for not saying hi. There’s a lot more but I’m trying to keep this rather short and to the point.
After I asked them both yesterday to no longer be in my wedding because of the drama they’ve caused. I thought things had ended on a positive note. We said we had no ill will wished each other the best, and left it be from there.
I then get a text from my future step mother in law. My at the time maid of honor is posting slanderous things about me and my fiancé saying horrible things that are down right not true. There are a few things that I said to her in confidence years ago when I first got with my FH, but those things I said in private, she posted those too. I should have known better I texted her and realized she had me blocked so I texted my at the time Bridesman and told him to forward it to her. Next thing I know my text with my picture is in her comments so people could see.
My FH does not know because he will be so upset with me for confiding in her years ago. And about what is said in general. I know I have two options I can either let it go and ignore it. Or I can talk to a lawyer because what she said mostly was untrue. She said I am in a domestic violence relationship. I’m so pissed about that because that is not true at all literally at all. I have never been abused beaten verbally or physically. The only thing that was true not that I want to put this out there but at first in our relationship we had an awkward sex life we were still trying to figure each other out. She has that on Facebook too and it’s like I just hope people see her true colors and how horrible of a person that makes her. I also have to work with her she’s on step above me so if I have questions she’s one person who I may have to go to.
I’m at a loss for words and not sure what to do 🤦🏼♀️
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