"I Suggest You Have Sex With Someone Else"

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Oxford defines open marriage as "marriage or relationship in which both partners agree that each may have sexual relations with others." I guess it wouldn't be an open marriage according to that definition.

Absolutely not! Who says that?

Ugh. This hit me in the heart. I hurt my back last year. I went from active nearly daily for over and hour (so I was fit and toned) to literally sedentary.

Over the the course of diagnosis and failed treatments I gained 45lbs. In May I had spine surgery and it’s terrifying to have someone noodling around all of those delicate ropes that determine if you feel things.

During my early recovery I gained another five pounds. I’m working on getting back to my old self now but I won’t be able to workout for 1year to 18 months. I lm already coping with my own body dysphoria and adjustment d/o. I don’t need to hear about how I’m not bang-able as well. Entrepreneurs created the flesh light and porn for a reason. If you can’t be sexually satisfied by me rn go knock on off to a Snapchat Premium account but building a relationship with another person is actual trash, IMO.

It would be an absolute divorce-able discussion if my husband decided he needed to have sex with someone else or he wanted me to get together with someone else for my needs. To me, this isn’t about attraction. I didn’t marry my husband for sex. He’s more than that and my attraction doesn’t wane because of physical changes.

View Quoted Comment Why not? Please elaborate.

View Quoted Comment I'm sorry to hear about your injury and am happy that you are recovering.

I “suggest” you are smarter when choosing a life partner... who says that? He clearly doesn’t love her for who she is

You're entitled to your opinion, however, rude and disrespectful comments are not welcome in my discussions.

Hard no. If my fiancé made a comment like that he would no longer be my fiancé.

I personally wouldn't be o.k.... I originally was getting married in 2018 and due to health issues and taking medication and injections
caused me to gain. When my dress
came back after 8 months I couldn't fit it no longer. My fiance was so supportive and to
prove his love he ask me to go to court house
and get married on his late Mother's birthday.
Which is going to be a surprise to my family
so we'll also be doing our vows over. P.s hope I fit my dress June 20 2020. Lol

View Quoted Comment Agree 100%

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I completely understand.

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Thank you for sharing.