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Guerline
Just Said Yes September 2023

i think i might be getting engaged

Guerline, on May 7, 2022 at 2:59 PM Posted in Planning 8 11
I think my bf will be proposing in July on my birthday. I say this because #1 his father just passed and besides his mother he has no other family. His dad and I were really close and was even supposed to walk me down the aisle whenever the time came, we of course thought we had time and I never got the opportunity to ask him. #2 He has been telling me that he needs my sister to text him. He and my sister are close but not to the point where they talk everyday. The only time they really talk is if im on the phone and its on speaker or when she comes over.My sister just moved and started a new job so she's very busy and doesn't check her phone often so he'll say things like your sister needs to respond to my text". But what really makes me thinks it's going to happen is we were talking about weddings and I don't remember excatly what we were talking about but we were on the topic of engagements and he said "it's going to happen soo..... let me shut up" now my bf can keep a secret he has suprised me b4 and never let the beans spill but idk if he's too excited or what it is but the way he's been acting i may be right. Obviously I don't want to think about it too much but of course I'm one of those girls who has been thinking of her wedding day since I could spell the word wedding. He has told me many times even a few days ago "you can start planning " I definitely plan on marrying you. My question Is should I start planning or wait until an engagement happens? Oh and btw we've already agreed on date for next September 🤔

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Latest activity by Paige, on May 9, 2022 at 3:08 PM
  • Ayanna
    Devoted November 2023
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    Wait until the engagement happens! You'll have plenty of time to plan Smiley smile
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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
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    Agree with Ayanna. Wait for it to happen and then start planning. Once it does happen, be sure to post your engagement ring!
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  • Guerline
    Just Said Yes September 2023
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    You're right. Plus I don't want to over think and it doesn't happen when I think it will.
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  • Guerline
    Just Said Yes September 2023
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    I definitely will 😊
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
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    No harm in starting to look now (researching venues, find the dress shops you want to visit). But perhaps wait on sharing ideas on your BF pops the question? Then jump in: y’all decide your budget, estimated guest list, venue are the big three decisions. Then look in your date at the venue, Sept & Oct are very popular wedding months.
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  • Guerline
    Just Said Yes September 2023
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    I found the most gorgeous chapel that I have not been able to stop thinking about. I'm praying it's available the date I want.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
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    That’s so exciting! ⛪️
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  • Gloria
    Devoted May 2023
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    Well since you’ve both decided to plan for September next year then I don’t see any harm in starting to plan. 😊
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  • Guerline
    Just Said Yes September 2023
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    I know right but, i guess I should wait until a formal proposal happens. But I found the perfect venue and would be crushed if it's not available.
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  • Gillian
    Devoted July 2021
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    Enjoy the moment you’re in now. The time will come
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  • Paige
    VIP October 2022
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    I'd start researching and have the vendors you like waiting in the wings for when the proposal actually happens. Stuff happens that can throw a wrench in plans, so it's best to hold off on actually booking or signing contracts until it's a sure thing.

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