I need to vent right now-
FH and I bought a house last June that is literally down to the studs. I currently still live at home for this reason and he lives on the finished porch. We are so incredibly blessed that my parents are paying for the venue, but it has ultimately exceeded all of our expectations and is way more expensive which I feel so bad for.
we both work 2 jobs and are STILL struggling so bad between the wedding and house. I was talking to him today and he’s in such a bad mood because of it all and we both feel like having a nervous break down. It’s just one thing after another. Literally. We don’t have money to even go out to eat anymore.
I wish we waited to get married because of the house, but my brother is getting married next spring and the weddings couldn’t be that close together due to family reasons.
I just don’t know what to do now. I feel SO beyond stressed. I’m trying to stay calm for him but it’s really super hard. I feel like all my money is being flushed down the drain and part of me wishes I just did justice of the peace and had a nice, peaceful family gathering to celebrate. 😔
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