My older brother is getting married next June. I just found out during Labor Day weekend that I will have no role in the wedding and that my brother has selected a friend to be his best man. The rest of the wedding party consists of his fiancee's oldest daughter as a maid of honor, her other daughter as a bridesmaid, two other nieces as bridesmaids, her son is a groomsman along with two of her nephews as groomsmen.
This upsets me as our side of the family is pretty much left out as other roles in the Wedding mass have been assigned to either friends or relatives of the fiancee. I'm starting to finally realize that I was so stupid for years to look up to my brother. Growing up, I was never asked to be in relatives' weddings and as an adult I haven't been asked to be in a wedding and me being the big idiot that I am actually thought that my brother would be the one to ask to be a big a part of a big event. But, no it's not happening and I realize that I don't mean anything to someone who I really looked up to.