Hi ladies! My FH and I are planning a very small, very inexpensive wedding because it's the only thing we can possibly afford, and we are having to really scrimp to save for it. WE are 100% okay with that, and very excited. His parents (it is his first marriage, my second) however, are insisting that we invite a number of people who are important to them but in no way important to FH or myself. Even my FH said he didn't think he could pick half of them out of a lineup. All venues we're considering (we're at the very beginning of our planning) will accomodate the extra people. Despite the fact that I'd wanted a more intimate affair, I'm consider a compromise that says, "okay, you can invite up to X many additional people (still not giving them free reign), but you need to understand that food and drink is by far our biggest budget item, we're even skipping a pro photographer and dj and stuff, so for every one of YOUR invites who accepts, you'll need to cover the cost of X per person (probably around $100-$120 per person)." What do we think ladies? Totally unfair? Tacky? Or a reasonably solution? I just don't think they should contribute nothing financially but still get either people my future husband and I want there bumped off the list or cause us to go over budget.
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