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Ideas for engagement gifts to request?

LittleBits, on May 5, 2022 at 10:02 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 5

Hi all,

My future MIL is throwing FH and I an engagement party with their side of the family next month. We had to do separate engagement parties as our families live around 6.5 hrs apart from each other. Future MIL is awesome and very sweet, as is the rest of the family. She told FH and I to think about and let her know what are some gifts we would like at our engagement party next month.

First of all, I already felt guilty at my side of the family's engagement party accepting gifts as there is also the expectation to give a gift at the shower AND the wedding, I felt ridiculous accepting a gift for engagement as well. I'm new to this wedding stuff and don't know how normal/abnormal engagement gifts are. Anyway. Does anybody have appropriate ideas of what to tell future MIL we would like for gift ideas for our engagement party? I definitely want to pick things that are on the less expensive side but don't really have any ideas, as any household items seem more like shower gifts. Since we were asked what we would like, I would like to at least give them some idea.

Appreciate any suggestions, thank you! Also, are engagement gifts normal? Should I stop feeling guilty? Lol!

5 Comments

Latest activity by Paige, on May 6, 2022 at 6:13 PM
  • Erin
    Super May 2022
    Erin ·
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    I haven’t really heard of engagement party gifts these days. Usually if there is an engagement party, people aren’t giving gifts at it, just celebrating the engagement. We only got one engagement gift and that was because my fiancé and I were vacationing with his family in Florida and one of their husband and wife family friends stopped by to visit and brought a gift for us privately.
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  • Erin
    Super May 2022
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    That said, don’t be afraid to say you guys are ok with not receiving gifts if you feel awkward and don’t want to sound greedy. If anyone is compelled, then they will and just let those few do it.
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  • Jm Sunshine
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    This is the first I've heard of gifts for an engagement party...
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  • Brittany
    Devoted October 2022
    Brittany ·
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    Usually an Engagement Party is just held to celebrate the couple getting engaged, no gifts.

    You can tell MIL that in you aren't expecting any gifts and just celebrating becoming a part of the family! If she insists, say you will start brainstorming some ideas for your bridal shower or wedding registry.

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  • Paige
    VIP October 2022
    Paige ·
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    I always thought of engagement parties as celebrations that aren't for gift-giving. People will probably still bring gifts, but you shouldn't feel obligated to put together a whole registry or anything.

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