We are considering a wedding in another state (which would require a 1.5 hour flight or a 10+ hour drive for someone who didn't want to fly). I'm aware that this will likely weed out quite a few people from the guest list, but I'm curious what others have experienced with RSVPs to destination weddings. My main concern is that most of our guests live in our city, and it would be much less convenient for all of them to travel when we have so many of them already in our area.
If you had a destination wedding, did most of your guests RSVP yes? Did a large percentage not attend due to the distance? I know it's not necessarily a bad thing to have a guest list cut itself down for you, but I am concerned that many people aren't willing to spend money on flights and hotel rooms (and I totally understand that!).