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ORDONEZ-NEVARZ WEDDING
Just Said Yes May 2019

I'm Catholic, he's Christian.

ORDONEZ-NEVARZ WEDDING, on November 27, 2017 at 7:11 PM

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Has anyone ever had a mixed religion wedding and able to perform it in a Catholic church? I've been doing research and getting mixed messages. Hoping someone with experience has a better idea?

Has anyone ever had a mixed religion wedding and able to perform it in a Catholic church? I've been doing research and getting mixed messages. Hoping someone with experience has a better idea?

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  • D&G114
    Super January 2018
    D&G114 ·
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    You likely just need a dispensation, each diocese is different so speak to your local priest. I am marrying an unbaptized person which adds a different element to the approval. I am guessing your FH is baptized? You will need to promise to raise the children Catholic. I would probably not do a mass as your FH will not be able to receive communion. Roman Catholics and Eastern Rite Catholics believe that communion is the body and blood of Christ, most other Christian religions think communion is only a representation which is why they cannot receive in the Catholic Church.

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
    2d Bride ·
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    A marriage between a Catholic and another baptized Christian is sacramental.

    http://www.foryourmarriage.org/catholic-marriage/church-teachings/interfaith-marriages/ It's only a marriage between a Catholic and someone who hasn't been baptized at all (e.g., a member of a non-Christian religion) that is not sacramental.

    And he doesn't have to promise to raise the children as Catholic. Only you have to promise to do everything in your power to raise them as Catholic, although he has to be aware of your promise.

    However, you do need to work with a priest to get all the requirements met before the wedding. And you have to decide whether to have a Catholic wedding or a wedding in his church. (You can't have one officiant from each.) If it's his, you'll need permission from the Catholic church for that, too.

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  • AD2AP
    VIP June 2018
    AD2AP ·
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    This title literally made me LOL

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  • Brianna
    VIP May 2018
    Brianna ·
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    Every church/diocese is going to be different. I'm getting married in the Catholic church, and my FH is not baptized or Christian. This just means we have to get a dispensation from the Bishop, and the marriage will not be considered a sacrament. Your FH does not need to convert to Catholicism, but you will need a dispensation approved by your priest I believe. Your best bet is going to be to call your local church and discuss your options.

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  • charstorm
    Savvy October 2017
    charstorm ·
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    Thanks @2d bride. As long as the non catholic is baptized in a Christian church (Mormon and Pentecostal don't count though) it is a sacrament. You can even have full mass.

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  • Megan
    Expert September 2017
    Megan ·
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    I've been to a Catholic and Jewish mixed ceremony and it was beautifully done - the rabbi and priest had worked together before and were fabulous. Note, there was no communion and not a full catholic service.

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  • Bailey
    Devoted January 2018
    Bailey ·
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    I was raised Baptist, my ex-husband was Catholic. We just had to go through classes and premarital counseling. Aside from snide remarks from the ex-MIL, it was no big deal.

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  • BoudreauToBe
    Master July 2018
    BoudreauToBe ·
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    I was raised Catholic and FH was raised Protestant. We are getting married in his church (Episcopal) because the priest is much more of a leader and teacher than the priest at my Catholic church. He does not have a problem with my background.

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  • Brooke
    Just Said Yes May 2017
    Brooke ·
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    Lol yes you can. As long as the non-catholic is willing to raise any children from the marriage as Catholics it can most certainly be done. It is called Mixed Marriage.
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