Im sooo confused what type wedding he wants 🤯

We both want destination in Florida and we both agree about 20 or so people. This is our 2bd marriage for both of us. We agree to keep it at 10k or less. Now comes the issue...

We talked and both liked beach or else Disney wedding. Now i priced out Disney and it fits the wallet fine and we both love its different. Less stress as a destination location. We know things are always beautiful so pretty stress free. He liked the idea of the pavilion since you see the castle etc.so thought this was more them likely it
Looked at beach on both sides of Florida have quotes that will cost more unless we cut some things down or out.however either way the beach will be more money no matter what we cut back on. He said just make it simple get a permit go to the beach say our vows and be done with it. In the same breath he says we need to have photographer wants 2. Reception have toast dance buffet meal and real flowers. How is that simple or cutback? Like i don't mean to sound like the nightmare bride . I just want it pretty and memorable. If we are just gonna go stand in sand say idos. We may as well go to the court house . Skip everything at the beach . I can cancel my dress . He wants dress shorts. He said this is getting bigger then he thought. One minute he wants this stuff thrn it changes to wanting it very basic cut to the chase style.It makes me sad i had something beautiful in my head and feels like its being washes away. Should i just throw my hands up say forget it and do a quick beach thing. The worst part is it bothers me enough i wont want to wear my dress anymore. Id just go get something basic to wear. He keeps going back and forth its driving me nuts