Hi ladies!
So I’m getting married on June 1st, 2024 and I’m so excited for it! I asked my cousin (who’s my maid of honor) if April 19-21 worked for her and if she’d be willing to plan a bachelorette party for me and she said sure! Well after a few weeks, she couldn’t get a lot of the other bridesmaids to help her. She only had one bridesmaid help her and they both eventually said that it was too much work for them to take on. So when that fell through I asked another bridesmaid of mine if she would be willing to plan a bachelorette party for me and she also said yes initially. Well the same thing happened to her where she ran into a lot of trouble getting help from the other bridesmaids and she also told me that this was too much work to do on her own and she politely said that she couldn’t do it. After being told by three bridesmaids that they would plan a party for me, only to back out a short time later, I decided that I was going to plan it myself and I got excited about it (and I still am), but after talking with my fiancé about it and after looking through every wedding forum I could find, I suddenly started feeling very weird about it. Like I was in the wrong for deciding to plan my own bachelorette party. And I’m sitting here thinking that I genuinely tried to get my bridesmaids to plan something for me instead because that’s what I’d prefer, but I don’t not want to have a bachelorette party. I don’t know, am I the crazy/wrong one here? All I want is a fun bachelorette party…
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