So we got engaged late October. I've ALWAYS wanted a small wedding. Fiancé agrees with whatever I want and just wants to support whatever I want for the wedding day. We decided on Honolulu Hawaii July 2021 (my mom died of brain cancer in May of this year. Her bucket list trip was Hawaii. It is my favorite memory of her and I wanted to have a piece of her on my day). So initially I thought we would hire an elopement company that provides the officiant services/photography/etc. on a public beach. Afterwards, I thought we would take everyone out for a nice dinner. But suddenly I am so indecisive I cannot figure out what I want. I've stumbled on secret island, and am trying to figure out it I want a more secluded place such as this for exchanging vows. I do not believe we can have dinner there (but have sent the question to them). I'm not sure if I'm just trying to make sure I've looked at all options before deciding on something or what. But I also found a dress that I fell in love with and am not sure I can make a decision on it either. Basically I feel like I'm already going nuts!
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