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Jacqueline, on October 19, 2020 at 12:05 PM

Hello, So here's the situation, my future brother-in-law is trying to push his dream wedding on me. I don't want to hurt his feelings but at the same time if I like something and he doesn't like it, he says it absolutely won't be apart of the wedding. For example, he said we're not doing the...

Hello,

So here's the situation, my future brother-in-law is trying to push his dream wedding on me. I don't want to hurt his feelings but at the same time if I like something and he doesn't like it, he says it absolutely won't be apart of the wedding. For example, he said we're not doing the traditional wedding march song. My fiancé and I are paying for the entire wedding. What should I do?

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Super October 2022
Michele · on October 19, 2020 at 4:05 PM
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Don't share plans with him. If she won't stand up to him then you need to. He is completely out of line.
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Jacqueline · on October 19, 2020 at 4:16 PM
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Congratulations
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Jacqueline · on October 19, 2020 at 4:16 PM
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Be firm. Got it.
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Jacqueline · on October 19, 2020 at 4:17 PM
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Stand my ground.
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Rebecca · on October 20, 2020 at 4:10 AM
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So, your FBIL says that if you don't have the wedding he wants, and he is not the one getting married, he won't show up?
I have one sentence for him: "We'll miss you."
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Jennifer · on October 20, 2020 at 5:10 AM
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Well I can say that looking back I wish I would have been a bit more of a bridezilla about the things I really wanted. It is your wedding you are paying for it. That said, I think it really should come from your fiance if it is his Brother.
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Yasmine · on October 20, 2020 at 6:57 AM
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At the end of the day its your wedding and you two are paying for it, it doesn't matter what he says
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Jacqueline · on October 20, 2020 at 9:01 AM
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He didn't say he won't show up, he's just very opinionated. I'm normally a people pleaser but for this I'm not willing to budge.
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Jacqueline · on October 20, 2020 at 9:03 AM
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How should I get her to word it though? I definitely don't want to come off rude, but I'm starting get bugged.
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Rebecca · on October 20, 2020 at 1:51 PM
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Don't.
He has no say, he has no right to have a say and he will continue to fight for a say unless you shut him down
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Jacqueline · on October 20, 2020 at 3:40 PM
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Shut him down. Got it
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