Hello and bright blessings to all!!
I wish I didn't have to rant, but I'm so heartbroken. The officiant who I booked to perform a Handfasting Vow Renewal Unity Ceremony emailed me to say that I another couple wants to book him for the same time and date as my ceremony. He basically told me that since he was a business man, he wasn't going to let a job offer slip thru his fingers of we weren't able to finance the service at this time.... ( A bit of background info: my partner just recently lost his job and we are trying to salvage our event by trying to work things out with vendors, asking for help, me getting a part time position, etc). This just broke my heart like you wouldn't believe! I understand that yes, he is right, his service is ultimately a business, but I was under the impression that he truly wished to partake in the our special day. As some of you may already know, handfasting ceremonies for certain spiritual paths, like my own, really take Vow Renewal Ceremonies with equal or more importance than the original commitment ceremony. I myself entered a handfasted union with my partner for a year and a day, at it is costumary, and we will get officially declare our love to each other till death do as part on our First Anniversary. This is when we were planning on celebrating with our loved ones with a reception for our marriage celebration. The first Vow Ceremony was just the High Priestess, my partner and I, as it is considered a "trial period" and not perceived as a lifetime commitment. I really do feel like just another $ walking around now. I understand that some don't really understand where our tradition comes from, but to some of us, it it gives us the spiritual connection we need to feel fulfilled and ready to be of service to our families, communities, and further gives us a sense of belonging, like any other religious doctrine. I no longer feel comfortable having to this officiant perform such scared rite for us too be honest. Although we are trying to cut expenses to try to pull this off, with one part time income only, in less than two months; I would much rather loose my deposit and find a Pagan clergy that will allow my civil partner an I to Tighten our Knot, in perfect love and perfect trust, as we express. I have tried locating a High Priestess of High Priest that has experience with performing the rite, but the closest ones to us are cities away. Many, bless their hearts, willing to travel to my city for the event, but after the unexpected setback, we cannot further stretch the new budget to cover for much. Understandingly, these celebrants need to get their milage reimbursed, and special lodging and meals to be covered. My Event is at the beggining of February 2020, and time is of the essence. I was wondering if anyone knows a High Priestess in or Near El Paso Texas, that could assist us in Retying the Knot??!! Any tips help! Thank you very much in advance and sorry about the long post and rant. May you all be blessed and have happy Yule and holiday season!!! 🌛🖤🌜
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