My fiancé and I have been together a year. I met his daughter about a month and half into our relationship because we knew from the very beginning that this was it ❤️
Her mother has tried to make things difficult, which puts more stress on his daughter. (They have been divorced 3 years.) Coming from a blended family myself I know how much better it is when everyone gets along. We try very hard to get along with the mother, it just doesn’t always workout as planned. His daughter and I have an “okay” relationship. we think If her mother wasn’t so influential on “if she likes me or not” our relationship would be better. She’s comfortable around me and even talks to me about things I don’t think she tells either of her parents.
Since we are getting married in June I’m trying to get as much done now of small things. We are doing unity sand and the idea of including her has come up in discussion.
- is this suppose to just be unity between man and woman? or unity among families?
the topic has also come up about maybe doing Vows to her as well.. I’m all for it but is this something that people generally do when marrying someone with a child/children? ( she’s 12)
All advice is welcome!
Thanks, Laura.
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