Invitations sent but no one RSVPing yet!

No, I wouldn't write anything on social media. They have a month to plan and decide so just chill on that.

OMG, leave them alone. You JUST sent out invites and you gave them a RSVP due of 5/20. You need to leave them alone until around 5/25. THEN you can start contacting people that have not RSVP'd.

FWIW, I did both online and traditional RSVPs and most of my (young) guests sent back the paper RSVP.

Are you having a DW? My RSVP is about the same as yours and my wedding is a whole month before yours. Seems like you're pretty early.

Don't be surprised if people mail them on the deadline. Give them a few days after the deadline to start bugging them.

There's so much about this post...

You sent invites super early, unless it's a DW. And your RSVP date is also very early. It's April - I don't have my work schedule for July yet, so there is no way I could respond yet if I was a guest.

If you don't have a phone number, are you really close enough to invite them to your wedding?

Just out of curiosity, why is your rsvp date two months ahead of time? I'm getting married the same day and my invitations are only going out a week before your rsvp date lol. My rsvp date is June 20th.

In any case, wait until your rsvp date. Many of them will probably wait until it gets closer as their plans for taking time off get closer, and since your rsvp date is quite a bit more before the wedding they may have some difficulty with certainty of getting the time off.

Oh, I totally glossed over OP's wedding date. Maybe that's why you don't have many people responding yet - you sent them out too early.

A lot of people are out of province and I had my SIL help me who already planned a wedding. It's three months before the wedding and I was told should start sending them 3 months the earliest, alot of time lines online too say that ..so I did because people are coming from far. I wasn't go to post my link online ..that's no no for sure don't want randoms rsvping lol

Wow, I haven't even sent my invites yet & my date is before yours! I would wait to contact them until after your rsvp date (which is also before mine!)

Well your SIL had it wrong. DW or not, the earliest you could have sent them was 9 weeks (which is what I did for my local wedding). Even 10 weeks would have been okay.

In any event, you told people RSVP by 5/20, then don't bother them until 5/25 if they haven't responded.

OK thanks everyone

I honestly wouldn't RSVP till a month before. I'm not a person who makes plans more than a month in advance, because I often can't due to kids schedules or other things. So honestly, you may want to be more realistic and understand people will take a long time to respond...

They have a month to RSVP. Wait until AFTER the RSVP date to follow up with people who didn't respond individually. Never post anything on social media about invites or RSVPs.

Why did you send so early? I just sent mine yesterday and my wedding is exactly 2 months from today. Give them until the RSVP date and then you can follow up.

A lot of people are out of town or province and couple of my venders need #'s 2 months before

Why are your rsvps due 8 weeks before your wedding? That's when the invites should be sent out. Way too early!

Why are your invites out so early? When is your RSVP due date?

If it's really early, people may not know what they're doing that far in advance.

I sent my invites out early and the RSVP date was 2 months before the wedding also but it's because we have alot of OOT guests that had to get time off of work and book flights/hotels/rental cars. Wait until a few days after the RSVP date to contact anyone, in case they mailed back the card ON the exact RSVP date.

This is why you send out STDs. You are going to have either a lot of declines or a lot of follow-up.

My wedding is a week after I've not sent out the invites yet/ isn't it a bit early?

You just sent them out and they still have a month yet to respond. Chill out. Also, sending out invites and RSVP deadlines out early is off putting to people.