EDIT: The wedding was not in January but I can't figure out how to update it. Covid delay.
This may be a silly questions but is it weird to address them differently depending on the side?
I know his side will prefer Mr. and Mrs. Husband Frist and Last Name but I want to include Mr. Husband and Mrs. Wife Last name for my side because I really don't like the idea of not including the woman's name. It feels sexist. I have no issue doing this for his side since it's their preference.
Also, this feels weird but I'm sending my Dad an invitation (he's not contributing to the wedding financially but I want him to come so I need to send him a formal invite). Is it weird to send him a letter addressed "Mr. First and Last Name?" My mom is no longer alive so it's just to him.