Invite a friend who got married recently and didn’t even tell me?

So I’ve gone back and fourth on this for quite some time, but need a non biased opinion! I have a friend whom I’ve known for few years now, she was originally a coworker whom actually was a little part in how I met my fiancé. We’ve been close the last few years but the past year she’s been a bit m.i.a.! Ever since saw in March and she told me she was suddenly getting married to a man she just met online, which okay I understand we find love in unexpected places so I was concerned but mostly excited for her! I was already in the midst of planning my wedding next March. Then i tried to hang out with her again and she said she can’t do anything cause of Ramadan (i guess cause her new to be husband she became a devout Muslim) which was not how she was before. But I have others I see during their Ramadan so I didn’t understand why she just blew me off for the whole month and didn’t even make an effort to reschedule after. So months go by and I try again but she says she’s just too busy and can’t find the time to hangout. So I backed off cause seems like she’s too busy for awhile, so maybe she’ll free up after time has passed. Then I hadn’t heard from her so i got worried and checked in and she said she was fine just too busy! Then by this point I knew she was going to move for her possible to be marriage (wasn’t even sure if was going through!) so I just wished her well on her new life cause i probably will never see her again at this point. I was also a little said she never wanted me to meet him, never talked to me about her wedding (I understand it must’ve been small but at least tell me!) i felt like she was pushing me away for some reason. I really was excited for her when she first told me about him. So then it was my time to send save the dates my guest list is super tight due to budget and I decided well if she doesn’t have time for our friendship maybe just best i don’t invite her (and would feel inclined to invite her man that i have no clue what he’s like and have never met!) now fast forward we’re 6 months away from my wedding and I start posting more on IG about my travels, and she all of a sudden starts responding and messaged apologizing for not seeing me before she moved and that she hopes I’m doing well. She did tell me she got married and moved but didn’t want to make a big deal about it…and while I get that I just hoped we were closer that she could at least tell me rather than me finding out by her referring to her husbands business on an ig story. Idk I’m torn because I wish she included me a little more in her big life moments, but i can’t expect that so why should I try to fit her into mine?