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Just Said Yes December 2021

Invite couple or don’t?

Claire, on February 2, 2020 at 5:39 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9
My fiancé’s college friends wife dislikes me and always creating drama and blaming me for it. When she feels there is a problem she is rude and doesn’t let me talk. It’s always over IG message or text message. It’s also always over my opinion or she assumes my post are about her. ( I did that in high school because I was scared to say something to her because she makes everything confrontational.) As an adult I wouldn’t. I told her It wasn’t and she ignored it. Verbally attacked me and brought up irrelevant things. Then blocked me on everything and said she’d never unblock me which I guess was her trying to threaten me. When we would all hang out she never gave eye contact and never talked to me unless I said something to her but she didn’t have that problem with anyone else. I was respectful when she was attacking me even through I wanted to give her a piece of my mind. There is a part of me that wants to bite the bullet and invite them but then I don’t feel comfortable to have her around. I know I can’t invite one because that’s rude but what do you ladies think?

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Latest activity by Claire, on February 3, 2020 at 1:35 PM
  • Jenna
    Dedicated May 2022
    Jenna ·
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    Honestly... I wouldn’t invite. Unless the college friend is close enough to be in your fiancé’s wedding party, it’s wouldn’t be enough for me to just bite the bullet. Don’t invite people that are going to make you miserable.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    If your FH wants his friend there, you should invite them.
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  • Sharonda
    Super January 2021
    Sharonda ·
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    Your wedding day is all about you and your husband-to-be, and that is the one day you should not have to be worried about her and her antics. Plus, weddings are too expensive to invite and pay for people to attend who have made (and/or still do make) your life miserable. Just my opinion.
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  • Jordan
    Expert March 2021
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    I wouldn't invite. The wedding is all about you and your FH. You shouldn't have to worry about running into someone or trying to avoid anyone at your wedding.

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  • Flame Princess
    Dedicated April 2021
    Flame Princess ·
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    You dont need that kind of negativity in your life, let alone on your wedding day. Some bridges are meant to be burnt.
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  • Fmv
    Super October 2020
    Fmv ·
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    Its your day and you shouldnt have anyone there that will make you feel uncomfortable on your big day. what does your fiance think, does he want that college friend there? I think if you decide to invite the guy and his girlfriend, i think something needs to be said to her about how she treats you. Its not okay
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    Claire ·
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    I don’t think anyone can talk to her. It’s always the other persons fault. Even if they didn’t do anything and everything has to become drama.
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
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    Since they are not your friends, you should talk to your FH about it. If he wants his friend there, him and his wife are a package deal and should be invited.

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    Claire ·
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    Yes! I agree with you. He has said he doesn’t care because he doesn’t like how she treats me then he says he would like him there. If he wants his friend there they can come but only because his happiness matters to me.
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