Ok so I was adopted at 4 months old and met my birth mother in 2009. Everything started off fine but the more I got to know her I don't trust her. She says she was raped which I don't believe. I'm biracial and I think she got pregnant in college and couldn't tell her parents. (She has another biracial son and she prefers African American men) I don't trust her. I would hear her make comments about wanting me to call her "mom" and telling people that "I'm her daughter". That all rubbed me the wrong way. My mom says I should invite her because she did give me life but I just don't want her to try to act like she's in a role that she's not. What do you all thing I should do? Sorry for the long post!