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Malei
Super October 2018

Invite Wedding Planner and Officiant to Rehearsal Dinner?

Malei, on May 18, 2018 at 6:51 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

I searched the forums and surprisingly nothing recent popped up about this so I'll ask. Is anyone inviting their planner to the rehearsal dinner? We have a partial planner that that we've been working with who will be there at the rehearsal (who isn't the greatest or most on top of it... I just add that in because I've seen old discussions saying they LOVED their planner). I've also read old discussions that say we're paying for her services so we don't need to extend an invite (since my future in-laws are hosting) but then I've also seen that you should invite your officiant as a kind gesture. Isn't that the same case as the planner, where you're paying for their services? Neither planner or officiant are close family friends or close anything, really. Thoughts?

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Latest activity by Jessica, on May 19, 2018 at 1:07 AM
  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    I don't think it's necessary to invite ether since you don't have a relationship with them other than a contractual one. I would think they would want to get home to their families anyway.

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    No, you do not need to extend an invite to any vendor. The exception is if they are a friend of yours (not recommended to hire friendors) or a friend of the family.

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  • Madison
    Devoted March 2019
    Madison ·
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    We will only be extending an invite to our officiant who is FH's youth leader from high school who he is very close with. Otherwise we would not be extending an invite to any of our vendors.

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  • D
    Expert December 2018
    Debbie ·
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    Maybe it would depend on your relationship with each of these people. For me my officiant is the pastor of my church, and friend, so he and his wife will be at the wedding. I am not sure if it would be different if I didnt know my officiant on a social level, whether I would invite them or not. I probably would sebd an invite and leave it up to them for their responses.
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  • Malei
    Super October 2018
    Malei ·
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    Thank you for your responses... but due to what I read in articles, I already did extend an invite to the officiant! So it's too late. With that said, should I now feel obligated to invite the planner since I invited the officiant?

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  • The Nuptials
    VIP July 2018
    The Nuptials ·
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    We went back and forth. No to the planner but that never crossed my mind. Yes to the officiant, we got so close to her during our counseling. She and her husband will be invited to he welcome party and reception.
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  • Orchids
    Master March 2018
    Orchids ·
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    We didn't do a RD, but if we had my planner would have been FIRST on the list!

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  • Jessica
    Savvy June 2018
    Jessica ·
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    Totally up to you Smiley smile I invited out wedding planner because we love her and she is doing and has done so much! She will be there for rehearsal and dinner is at the hotel where we are having our reception so she’s going to be setting up the venue with her staff as much as she can. So just a heads up they may not be able to! Our officiant is my FH uncle so he will for sure be there!
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