I need some help guys. I have ultimately decided that I would not invite one of my aunts to my wedding because as a grown adult I have come to the conclusion that I do not wish to associate with her. Everyone else in my family is hurt that this particular aunt is not invited and is making me feel guilty and out to be the bad guy. They say she has and would do so much for me, but yet her behavior, her actions and overall morals since I was a kid is something I do not or would not associate with. Everyone has forgotten that I am an adult and this is my wedding, not so sound like a Bridezilla, but I am allowed to make my own decisions when it comes to my family and its future. My Fiancé has aunt who is similar to my aunt. Everyone is wondering why she is invited and not my own aunt. I have been upfront and open about not being controlling about who my Fiancé can and cannot invite. At this point my grandparents on my moms side will come to the ceremony but the reception and it hurts. And they say they are hurt by my decision.
Am I the bad guy? Are my feelings valid? What should I do? I don't want to be guilt tripped into inviting someone I swore I would never invite to my wedding or allow near my children, but idk what to do?
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