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Inviting an ex-bff??

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Judy, on August 21, 2018 at 5:38 PM

Hello. I need some input if I should invite someone who I used to be close with but drifted apart to my wedding? Things ended pretty weird and not so good terms since we last worked together however back in the days when we were close, she and I would always talk and share about everything even our perfect wedding. We knew each other since high school (we are now in our late 20’s) so we had a history but we havnt talked since last year. What makes it even more awkward is that we share the same group of friends at work. So you can only imagine how weird it feels to be around each other. She no longer work with us anymore but still keeps in touch with them. What do you think I should do?

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Tiffany Rose · on August 23, 2018 at 1:53 AM
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I see no reason to invite her. My FH was doing this exact same thing. Old friends who he hasn't talked to in many years he kept trying to invite and I really just didnt see the point. Like they know nothing about him anymore, and it's just weird to me. I only want people at our wedding that we love and care about and we still talk to and spend time with. Not old friends from many years ago that don't even know anything about us anymore.
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Laura · on August 24, 2018 at 11:09 AM
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I have a similar situation my best friend since I was one just stopped talking to me a few years ago (24 now). I'm not inviting anyone that I haven't spoken to for months except on some rare occasions. Sometimes life doesn't work how we thought (I 100% thought she'd be in my wedding, nonetheless not there at all), but you have to remember it's your wedding day, no awkwardness needs to be there.
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